Can you spot a liar? We all know peoÂple who think they can, and very often they claim to be able to do so by readÂing “body lanÂguage.” ClearÂing one’s throat, touchÂing one’s mouth, crossÂing one’s arms, lookÂing away: these and othÂer such gesÂtures, they say, indiÂcate on the part of the speakÂer a cerÂtain disÂtance from the truth. In the WIRED “TradeÂcraft” video above, howÂevÂer forÂmer FBI speÂcial agent Joe NavarÂro more than once proÂnounces ideas about such physÂiÂcal lie indiÂcaÂtors “nonÂsense.” And havÂing spent 25 years workÂing to idenÂtiÂfy peoÂple preÂsentÂing themÂselves falseÂly to the world — “my job was to catch spies,” he says — he should know, at the very least, what isn’t a tell.
Not that all the throat-clearÂing and arm-crossÂing doesÂn’t indiÂcate someÂthing. NavarÂro calls such behavÂiors “self-soothers,” physÂiÂcal actions we use to paciÂfy ourÂselves in stressÂful moments. Of course, even if self-soothers proÂvide no useÂful inforÂmaÂtion about whether a perÂson is telling the truth, that doesÂn’t mean they proÂvide no useÂful inforÂmaÂtion at all.
But NavarÂro’s career has taught him that actions deciÂsiveÂly indiÂcatÂing decepÂtion are much more speÂcifÂic, and withÂout relÂeÂvant knowlÂedge comÂpleteÂly illegÂiÂble: take the susÂpectÂed spy he had under surÂveilÂlance who gave the game away just by leavÂing a flower shop holdÂing a bouÂquet facÂing not upward but downÂward, “how they carÂry flowÂers in eastÂern Europe.”
For the most part, detectÂing a liar requires a great deal of what NavarÂro calls “face time,” a necesÂsiÂty when it comes to observÂing the full range of and patÂterns in an indiÂvidÂuÂal’s forms of non-verÂbal comÂmuÂniÂcaÂtion. In the video he anaÂlyzes footage of a pokÂer game, the kind of setÂting that heightÂens our awareÂness of such non-verÂbal comÂmuÂniÂcaÂtion. At the table we all know to put on a “pokÂer face” and shut our mouths, but even when we say nothÂing, NavarÂro emphaÂsizes, we’re conÂstantÂly transÂmitÂting a high quanÂtiÂty of inforÂmaÂtion about ourÂselves. WhatÂevÂer the setÂting, it comes through in how we dress, how we walk, how we carÂry ourÂselves — espeÂcialÂly if we think it doesÂn’t. In the eyes of those who know how to interÂpret this inforÂmaÂtion, all the world becomes a pokÂer game.
NavarÂro is the author of two books on this subÂject: The DicÂtioÂnary of Body LanÂguage: A Field Guide to Human BehavÂior and What Every Body Is SayÂing: An Ex-FBI AgenÂt’s Guide to Speed-ReadÂing PeoÂple. For a conÂtrarÂiÂan point of view that chalÂlenges the idea that we can ever read peoÂple accuÂrateÂly, see MalÂcolm GladÂwell’s new book, TalkÂing to Strangers: What We Should Know about the PeoÂple We Don’t Know.
RelatÂed ConÂtent:
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Based in Seoul, ColÂin MarÂshall writes and broadÂcasts on cities, lanÂguage, and culÂture. His projects include the book The StateÂless City: a Walk through 21st-CenÂtuÂry Los AngeÂles and the video series The City in CinÂeÂma. FolÂlow him on TwitÂter at @colinmarshall or on FaceÂbook.
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