A litÂtle food for thought. The Guardian talked with a palÂliaÂtive nurse who has recordÂed the most comÂmon regrets of the dying. It’s worth givÂing the top five regrets a read, espeÂcialÂly if you’re at risk of endÂing up in the same penÂiÂtent place. Here, the nurse lists the misÂgivÂing most comÂmonÂly citÂed by men: “I wish I hadÂn’t worked so hard.”
This came from every male patient that I nursed. They missed their chilÂdren’s youth and their partÂner’s comÂpanÂionÂship. Women also spoke of this regret, but as most were from an oldÂer genÂerÂaÂtion, many of the female patients had not been breadÂwinÂners. All of the men I nursed deeply regretÂted spendÂing so much of their lives on the treadÂmill of a work exisÂtence.
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