Can Ayn Rand tell us someÂthing about achievÂing a deeply satÂisÂfyÂing relaÂtionÂship? It’s hard to imagÂine. She was notoÂriÂousÂly churlÂish, dumped friends and allies who didÂn’t give her works posÂiÂtive reviews, and cheatÂed on her husÂband with a man 24 years her junior, then evenÂtuÂalÂly expelled the young Nathaniel BranÂden from her intelÂlecÂtuÂal cirÂcle. And heck, she even made her husÂband wear a bell on his shoe, to warn her about his comÂings and goings.
But, no matÂter, you have to sepÂaÂrate the phiÂlosÂoÂphy from the perÂson … or so many acolytes of flawed thinkers have argued. Right fans of John Edwards? All three of you? So here you have it, The SelfÂish Path to Romance, a love manÂuÂal based on Ayn Rand’s ObjecÂtivist phiÂlosÂoÂphy. The video almost screams parÂoÂdy, but it’s apparÂentÂly not. You can snag a copy of the book on AmaÂzon here…
RelatÂed ConÂtent:
Ayn Rand Helped the FBI IdenÂtiÂfy It’s A WonÂderÂful Life as ComÂmuÂnist ProÂpaÂganÂda
FlanÂnery O’Connor: Friends Don’t Let Friends Read Ayn Rand (1960)
This makes me sick.
You make me sick. I have the best relaÂtionÂship in the world, and it’s comÂpleteÂly based on reaÂson and self improveÂment. I’m hapÂpiÂly marÂried, withÂout fuckÂing folÂlowÂing my “heart.” nnMy brain has givÂen me supreme hapÂpiÂness. So suck on that.
PhiÂlosÂoÂphy is about the truth. You canÂnot sepÂaÂrate the philosoÂpher from the phiÂlosÂoÂphy, since the philosoÂpher should embody the phiÂlosÂoÂphy espoused. Rand made enorÂmous misÂtakes, that’s true. And ObjecÂtivism has sevÂerÂal major flaws (outÂlined in a numÂber of places). But she was bang-on in her critÂiÂcism of “selfÂlessÂness” and “sacÂriÂfice” as virtues. FunÂdaÂmenÂtalÂly, the task is neiÂther to excuse Rand and accept ObjecÂtivist writÂings uncritÂiÂcalÂly, nor to conÂdemn Rand and reject ObjecÂtivist writÂings out of hand. Rather, it’s to look at these works and judge them on their own merÂit — includÂing the conÂtext of the philosoÂpher’s *pracÂtice* of what she preached, and the times in which she preached it, in our evalÂuÂaÂtion.
What about the video screams parÂoÂdy? Seems very reaÂsonÂable to me.
Man, there’s just someÂthing about Ellen Keller’s manÂnerÂisms and way of speakÂing that gives me the screamÂing heeÂbyÂjeeÂbies.
This book has some very valid points, but some ideas work betÂter for difÂferÂent types of peoÂple.
Rand’s prinÂciÂples of self-improveÂment and self-interÂest have worked very well for some peoÂple. If this book can help someÂone have a healthy relaÂtionÂship, then why not?
It is true that many peoÂple make poor deciÂsions out of their emoÂtions and feelÂings. PeoÂple often sacÂriÂfice far too much in relaÂtionÂships. It is all about balÂance.
The desÂperÂateÂly schlocky music that chatÂters incesÂsantÂly throughÂout is enough to show how litÂtle faith these authors put in reaÂson, and how litÂtle clue they have about what it is in the first place.